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 by Thomas Hardy
		
		
If grief come early
           Joy comes late,
           If joy come early
           Grief will wait;
                      Aye, my dear and tender!
Wise ones joy them early
While the cheeks are red,
Banish grief till surly
Time has dulled their dread.
           And joy being ours
           Ere youth has flown,
           The later hours
           May find us gone;
                      Aye, my dear and tender!